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Is a Living Top 20 Membership for me?

If you’re like me, you’ve read countless books with wonderful advice. The problem is, when you don’t use the information, you lose it. Applying the material in your life is what makes the knowledge stick. Without application, practice, and the building of habits around the material you learned, the positive changes you hoped for never materialize. You need to live it!

“I am excited to hear about the launching of the Top 20 website, Living Top 20. My husband and I attended a Top 20 seminar months ago and I have noticed that some of the ideas presented slowly faded away. As with anything in life, ‘if you don’t use it you lose it.’ With this website, I am hoping that through discussions, and sharing stories and experiences, I can make the Top 20 principles a natural, effortless way to live.”   – Margaret Galowicz

A Living Top 20 membership is a great fit for anyone who wants to apply Top 20’s principles and tools in their daily life. Living Top 20 helps you by providing ways to learn and interact with the Top 20 material. We help you build better mental habits.

Everyone wants a better life. Who wouldn’t? However, “wanting” and “doing” are worlds apart. For instance, most people want to exercise but have trouble following through. That’s why Living Top 20 created Habit Builders—to make the “doing” easier!

What’s Included in a Living Top 20 Membership?

  1. Habit Builders
    • Build habits that help you and bust habits that hurt you!
    • Knowing Top 20 and Living Top 20 are different. Live the difference.
  2. Monthly Videos
    • Short monthly videos with Top 20 Authors and Trainers.
    • Less than five minutes each, so they fit into your busy life!
  3. Biweekly Reminders
    • Helpful hints, practices, and tools to keep the learning alive.
    • Each email is short and quickly consumed in easy, bite-size bits.
  4. Forum
    • Our supportive community of like-minded folks.
    • A place to share what’s working, what’s not, and gather new ideas and solutions.
  5. Our Top 20 Champions
    • Access to our Top 20 Champions who are there to welcome you to the community, share ideas, and answer your questions.
    • Develop online support systems and accountability groups.
  6. Free Articles and Newsletters
    • Learn the latest Top 20 news.
    • Read newsletters and articles from the Authors to parents, teens, and businesses.
  7. Discounts and Early Access for Members
    • Get priority access to special reports, classes, and webinars.
    • Enjoy membership discounts in the store on marked items.
  8. Ask Us: Access to Top 20 Authors and Trainers
    • Ask the Top 20 Authors questions in our “Ask Us” section.
    • Read responses to other questions and hone your Top 20 skills.

How Can Living Top 20 Make Learning Top 20 Easier?

We deliver our material to you in sections. We do this so you are not overwhelmed with too much at once, and you have time to practice and apply what you’re learning in a natural way.

Becoming a “better you” doesn’t have to be overwhelming. When delivered in manageable and fun bite-sized bits, the material can become part of your daily life without distracting from your daily “to-dos”!

“To be able to learn more Top 20 through LivingTop20.com in small doses, from the convenience of my home and then be able to apply it to my professional and personal life, is handy. Are you going to be that Top 20% of positive, forward thinkers?” -Michelle Pavlik, Vice-Principal

How Can our Habit Builders Help You?

We want to have better relationships, become better parents, and be better leaders at work, but most of us have plenty on our plates already. We don’t always have time to study the next self-help book. Even when we do, we often forget what we read and return to status quo.

Our Habit Builders include short, monthly videos—less than five minutes each to easily fit into your busy life—followed by brief email reminders to help you put into practice that month’s Top 20 tools. Becoming a member of Living Top 20 makes learning easier as the reminders keep the material ever present in your mind, without requiring a huge investment of your time.

“Being a parent is hard work!  Being a ‘good’ parent presents even larger challenges – and having solid tools in our toolbox is essential to doing well.  I felt that what I learned about Top 20 showed that it could offer me bite size lessons that weren’t too big to fit in my toolbox.  I will be back for more!” -Pam Gowda, Parent

What Topics Will the Habit Builders Cover?

The depth of Top 20 Training’s material is phenomenal. Through Living Top 20’s Habit Builders, the delivery system is manageable.

Living Top 20’s material builds over time. We’ll begin with the Top 20 Cornerstones and Foundations of Thinking, then move into Learning and Communicating.

Here’s a list of topics for our first year of Habit Builders:

THINKING: Self-Smarts

Habit Builders Months 1-3 with Top 20 Author Willow Sweeney:

  1. Mental Habits: They can help you or hurt you. Becoming aware of your thinking.
  2. Life Looks Different: Do you like what you see? Learning why or why not.
  3. Invitations: Moments in life that invite us to react or respond. Understanding choice.

Habit Builders Months 4-12 with Top 20 Authors Tom Cody and Paul Bernabei:

  1. Busting the Need to Be Right and Building Curiosity.
  2. The New Formula for Success: Creating balance.
  3. The Frame: Learning how to reframe what isn’t working in life.
  4. An Inside Job: Understanding the 90/10 Rule. Empowered living.
  5. Thought Circles: Eliminating negativity.
  6. Growing Through Risk: Leaving your comfort zone.
  7. Mistakes: Writing your new mistake script.
  8. Living and Visiting: How often are you in a healthy state of mind?
  9. Beliefs: Fact or Fiction: Your interpretations make a big difference.

“I must have over one hundred Thought Circles each and every day.  I honestly didn’t even realize what they were.  I suppose I just figured they were my mind wandering.  However, after the Thought Circle class, I realized that they could, in fact, be stopped.  Since then I have employed the “Stop, Not Now” technique and my mind seems to become more and more uncluttered each day!” – Monica

Once we understand Thinking, we’ll move into Learning and Communicating. Below is a list of what’s coming.

A teacher showing problems on the chalkboard in math classLEARNING: Book-Smarts (A Sample)

  • Culture: Learning a New Way to Operate as a Family, Business, or School
  • Relevancy: Learning the “Why” in Life Instead of the “Why Me?”
  • The Dishwasher Rule: Busting Complaints and Building Acceptance
  • Roadblocks to Success Part 1: Eliminate What’s in Your Way
  • Roadblocks to Success Part 2: Letting Go of “Not Good Enough”
  • Levels of Listening: Better Listening Means Better Learning

“The listening levels taught me to prevent my mind from wandering. Cutting down the amount of judging, having my life on my mind, and not letting the distractions get the best of me really helped to improve my grades and to be more aware of what is going on in class.” – Theresa

“One bored ninth grader of mine decided to use the first five minute technique and paid attention in a math class that he was failing.  After one week he told me that he was now connecting in class.  He raised his grade from a D to a low B in just a few weeks.” -Pat (high school teacher)

COMMUNICATING: People-Smarts (A Sample)

  • Building Your Trust Fund: Essential for Families with Teens
  • Understanding Nonverbal Communication: What Does Yours Say About you?
  • Tornadoes of Negativity: Navigating Negative People and Situations
  • Responding to Hits: Building Resiliency
  • Heart-to-Heart Conflict Resolution
  • Instant Replays: Making Things Better After You’ve Made Them Worse
  • Feedback: Giving and Getting for Optimal Growth
  • Leadership: Creating Value for Others

“After TLC (Top 20’s Think, Learn and Communicate class) I tried to watch other people and their non-verbals.  Our teacher gave more respect and attention to the kids that had good non-verbals.” -Matt

Living Top 20 constantly reviews these essential tools and features a “Putting It All Together” section so that the material isn’t just learned, but lived!

How Can Living Top 20 Transform Your Entire Family, Business, or School?

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Heck, the entire TOWN of Fairmont, Minnesota, has adopted Top 20! Read below . . .

Down in the south-central heart of Minnesota sits, far from idly, a community watching their own potential explode!

Top 20 Training has been working with school faculty and staff, principals, students, parents, hospitals, businesses, community leaders, and many more throughout the nation for 12 years, but we never hit all of those groups with one fell swoop, in one town . . . until Fairmont, Minnesota. Fairmont is the first community in the nation to take on an endeavor this big and with such promise and determination.

Led by the enthusiasm, positivity, and insights of Police Chief Greg Brolsma and his committee, Top 20 Training has spent many days training throughout Fairmont. We have now trained students, teachers, parents, business leaders, senior citizens, and various community members. The continued relationship between Top 20 Training and Fairmont is one that is truly cherished and valued.

The following email was sent from Mike Riley of Profinium Bank. Mike has been an essential piece of bringing Fairmont, Minnesota: A Top 20 Community’s goal and vision to fruition. Read below about the current initiatives in their community.

business-membership-page“The whole Fairmont community is buzzing about Top 20 again. We just had a Top 20 committee meeting yesterday and exciting things are happening in the Fairmont area and Martin County:

  • We have been requested to go in to 3M for their employee meetings next week to explain Top 20 in six different sessions.
  • We’re putting up a Top 20 Facebook page for the Fairmont area. We have a weekly Top 20 Column in Photo Press, a local community newspaper that only covers good news and goes to everybody. The Top 20 committee is authoring the columns. Last week, I did a meeting summary of the Paul and Willow show. This week, Traci Lardy will cover our mission and the direction of the Champions.
  • We had 25 new Champions sign up after [Top 20] presentations, now totaling 85.
  • We’re thinking about creating a “Sponsors Forum” to network, share best practices, and think creatively about additional ways to put Top 20 to work within the various sponsor companies and in the community.
  • We’re going to ask the Champions (we need 40) to volunteer for “Cardinal Connections”—to go into Home Rooms in grades 7-12 to help deliver the content that the teachers are covering.”

– Mike Riley

Building better Thinking, Learning, and Communicating skills creates a better culture. I think real estate in Fairmont might go up!

It’s simple, really. Living Top 20 is about building better habits that support personal empowerment while busting habits that block your potential, like blame, self-doubt, or anger.

How Much Does a Membership Cost?

Join before 2015 and become a Charter Member.

Because we are continually adding more value, material, and information to the website, our prices will never be this low again. However, for our Charter Members—those who join Living Top 20 before 2015—we will lock in this low rate forever as a special “thank you!” In other words, Charter Members will never pay an increase in membership because they are locked into this low price forever, as our thanks for getting started with us in the beginning!

For Individuals:

A Living Top 20 Annual Membership is $137 for a full year (a savings of $58.00) when paid up front. If you would prefer to pay monthly, the cost is $16.25 per month.

“I will not only use this information (from Top 20’s Teacher book, in store now) in my classroom but in my personal life.  This is valuable for all seasons…a must for all teachers.” -Colleen, Teacher

“My first part of high school ripped me apart socially and academically and lowered my self-esteem.  I needed my Star Qualities back.  TLC (Top 20’s Think, Learn and Communicate Class) did it.  I found my true self.” – Jimmy

Yes, I want a Living Top 20 Membership for an Individual!

Best Deal: One Payment of $137.00 (saves $58.00) Monthly Payments of $16.25 ($195.00 a year)

*Try the first two months risk free! If this isn’t a good fit, we refund the entire payment to you no questions asked.  After the first two months, you can always withdraw at any time and receive any unused portion of your annual fee.

parents-membership-pageFor Families:

A Living Top 20 Annual Family Membership is $195 for a full year (a savings of $60.00) and includes access for everyone in your immediate family. They’ll be able to participate in the forum and receive the Habit Builder videos and reminders. If you would prefer to pay monthly, the cost is $21.25 per month. That’s less than a family meal at a fast food joint and MUCH better for you—while still maintaining the ease and convenience of takeout.

“Top 20 Parents awakened the wisdom within us as parents.  We felt a burden of things we “should” do lift off our shoulders. Thanks to Top 20 Parents (the book is in our store now), we have the tools to parent how we have always wanted.  Our kids are having fun with it and we are raising resilient, realistic, emotionally stable children.” – Amy and Stephen Gould

Yes, I want a Living Top 20 Membership for my Family!

Best Deal: One Payment of $195.00 (saves $60.00) Monthly Payments of $21.25 ($255.00 a year)

*Try the first two months risk free! If this isn’t a good fit, we refund the entire payment to you no questions asked.  After the first two months, you can always withdraw at any time and receive any unused portion of your annual fee.

For Businesses, Clubs, and Schools:

We want to support the businesses, clubs, and schools who are interested in Top 20 Training by making Living Top 20 Membership more affordable for large group purchases. Organizations can subscribe to Living Top 20 for $300 per month or $3,000 per year (a savings of $600—two months free—when paid all at once).

“The two days I spent in the Top 20 training had both a professional and personal impact on me.  I have learned so many strategies pertaining to effective communication, creating a positive climate, building trust, and so much more.  These new tools are making me a better educator, parent, and significant other.  Most importantly, I learned how to help the teachers and students I serve be more successful.  The Top 20 training has something for everyone, whether you are a teacher, coach, parent, professional in the workplace, or spouse.” – Dr. Tanya Rasmussen, Curriculum & Staff Development Director, Harrisburg School District, Harrisburg, SD

Yes, I want a Living Top 20 Membership for my Business, School or Club!

Best Deal: One payment of $3,000.00 (a savings of $600) Monthly payments of $300.00 ($3,600 a year)

*Try the first two months risk free! If this isn’t a good fit, we refund the entire payment to you no questions asked.  After the first two months, you can always withdraw at any time and receive any unused portion of your annual fee.

In Summary, Here are the Top 10 Reasons to Join Living Top 20

  1. To get what’s important in your life and respond more effectively when you’re not.
  2. To become aware of your thinking and how it governs your experience.
  3. To develop positive mental habits.
  4. To reduce or eliminate negative mental habits.
  5. To build trust and respect in your family and work relationships.
  6. To send your children empowering messages.
  7. To move outside your comfort zone and learn from your mistakes.
  8. To listen and communicate more effectively.
  9. To resolve conflict and make things better after you’ve made them worse.
  10. To reduce negativity in your life.

Where you hang out—both physically and mentally—determines who you will become. Hang out with Living Top 20 and we can help each other succeed!

Warm Regards,

Danna Evans

Your Host for Living Top 20